Is This Really The Right Road

How many times in life does this happen.  You are happy with your life, everything is going well.  Seems like everything is falling into place like it should and then WHAM, everything just feels off.  Is it the "grass is always greener on the other side" theory or is just being stuck in limbo between the life you are currently living and the life that you have ahead of you.  The life that starts in a few months or days.  It's like waiting for a promotion that you are not sure you want.  I mean the money will be good, the travel will be awesome, but is it really what is best for the life that you are currently living, for those that are traveling that road of life with you.  Sometimes it would be nice to just be able to let it all go and start over.  Let everything go and try again.  Sometimes it feels that the road that we have chosen for ourselves is not the best road for those that are traveling it with us.  What do you do in that situation, let them go?  Hope that they are happy on the road with you even though it wasn't what they had planned at all in their life?  These are the questions that are hard to talk about with those traveling with you.  You want them with you, but are scared that they are giving things up that they want for what, a road that you chose because the life you were living wasn't working out for you.  Live with the thoughts that they someday will regret traveling with you or just forget about it all and go with it.  I guess we'll just find out.

Take Advice or Shut Up

Have you ever had a good friend or a family member come to you with a problem?  Of course you have.  It happens on a daily basis.  Now, have you ever given that friend or family member advice?  You probably have.  Now, when that friend or family member basically tells you that your advice sucks, it really makes you want to not give them advice ever again.  So when you have a friend or a family member that is constantly telling you about their problems yet do nothing to try to fix them, makes you really want to just not say anything to them anymore.  In fact it really makes you want to just tell that person to shut the hell up and deal with it.  People who aren't willing to take advice or council should not talk about their problems.  It really is annoying to have someone just bitch and moan all the time but never do anything to help themselves.  So if you are one of those people or know someone that is, here is my two cents...Shut the Fuck up and face your own problems.  Then when it bites you in the ass, I'll laugh at you and say "Should have listened huh?!?!"

For All the Lonely and Sad Women

So this goes out to all of the women who are in your mid 20's and desperately in love with someone that you can't have.  Let me just say this, the reason that you are still not married and not in a relationship is because you are still hopelessly in love with someone that you can't have.  Whether this person is someone from high school, college, or please god don't say a movie star or musician you need to get over it and move on with your life.  So when you get together with the rest of your friends that are in the same position as you, sadly single wishing that you had a dream guy that doesn't even know you are alive please refrain from telling everybody around you that he is in love with you and that the song he wrote is for you.  It is just sad and pathetic.  Please grow up and stop acting like a junior high girl with a crush on the quarter back and get a life.  There is nothing that will turn a guy off faster than listening to a bunch of grown girls talk about how their dream guy just hasn't found them yet.
(if you haven't figured it out yet there was a bunch of these girls at a recent concert that I was at)